Hi I'm Liz Hancock, the EFT Coach and I have two crazy dogs who occasionally feature on my zoom calls and two amazing kids who usually don't! I'm happiest in the sunshine, ideally on a boat watching my kids in the water or walking the dogs with a friend, ideally with a glass of wine and lunch at the end!
I am a single Mum who has struggled a fair bit through life and has had her fair share of trauma, through never believing I was good enough as a child (the 'naughty/difficult one') and was raised with the words, 'If she had been our first we never would have had anymore' echoing through my head constantly!
Leaving home at 16 after being estranged from my parents for a while, at 18 I escaped my first abusive relationship to excel in my career in HR, training and development which I loved. It gave me so much self worth that it was a gift at masking the painful wounds that I was carrying and fighting behind closed doors and sometimes more publically when alcohol got the better of me.
I discovered EFT Tapping when I attended a birth trauma workshop and after the birth of my second child, got qualified in this amazing technique of EFT Tapping. I slowly started to build my business and discovered I could use EFT Tapping for my own money blocks that were sabotaging my growth and my income. What I didn't realise was that working on my money story would enable me to heal a lifetime of wounds from my childhood, my parents, the abusive relationship and almost everything else, including my battles with weight and body image. I devoured every training I could and became an expert detective in piecing together my clients experiences throughout their lives to identify where the issues were, then releasing them and healing them.
After almost 13 years of marriage and trying EVERYTHING I possibly could to make the relationship work, I was eventually forced to admit that it was broken beyond repair. 9 months after separating and fighting for a fair deal in the divorce (where I leaned heavily on my money mindset training and tweaked it for divorced women to offer a new service), I met the man who I truly thought was the love of my life. It turned out to be anything but when I discovered his abuse towards his ex before me and we ended badly as a result. It was at this time that my ex husband decided to turn on me and unleash hell on me and my children. From there, my deepest healing occurred, being forced to look at and leave no stone unturned, including my own mistakes that had contributed to the problems that had occured in my life.
Whilst there are still ongoing external challenges I have to deal with, I can say with absolute conviction that I do truly love and accept myself now. The self blame, low self esteem and lack of self worth and value have finally left and I know that I am exactly where I should be right now. I am more healed and empowered, confident and courageous than I ever have been. I'm not playing at this anymore, no longer worrying if I might be found out because the imposter syndrome has well and truly packed up and left. I still have to pinch myself though to believe that my life is full of so many blessings!
Because of my experiences and healing, I am on a mission to help others with their healing journey and I thank God every single day that I get to live and love this amazing life where I am following my soul's purpose and my true passion daily. I call it my 'selfish why' because I love this 'work' so much, it doesn't even feel like work and it keeps me accountable to ensure I always keep growing and evolving and never fall into any kind of arrogant 'I'm done' kind of thinking (I'm a bit anti-guru)! There's always more that I can make a difference to and more people I can reach and help.
I've not just got your back if I'm working with you, but I've got the back of everyone who has ever reached out to me to share their story, seek or offer support
I hope to be able to serve you and welcome you to the family soon!